ABORTION is all I can Think of After my friend showed me what Childbirth did to...

Mom.of.None · #1 03-20-2009, 09:49 AM

...her Vagina? I have been b-friends with her since age 5.
She showed me what Childbirth Did to her Vagina...I wish I never saw it.
Her inner labia lips hang out lots.
She told me she experiences alots of discomfort from her excess labia rubbing against her underware...And that sex is not the same or enjoyable anymore.SCARY!.
She Complains that her vagina is way bigger now & looks ugly.

WHY DON'T THEY (teachers sex-ed) WARN US ABOUT THIS IN SCHOOL SO WE CAN PREVENT THIS...."Cauz I would have been sterilized & instead Adopted".
I have to live in this body for 60+years and I do not want to destroy it.
I am 10weks and Freaking out...HELP
IS THIS WHY HUSBANDS CHEAT EVENTUALLY?

Sam-O · #2 03-20-2009, 10:33 AM

omg you are a nut job considering abortion so you don't have a saggy vagina?!?!? i have had 2 babies and one was almost 10lbs and i had him totally naturally and my vagina is just fine me and my husband still have great sex. most woman go right back to normal right after delivery and any ripping will be sewed up by the doctor and they have cosmetic vaginal surgeries now if you are that obsessed with the appearance. and not all husbands cheat just the asshole ones.

Marla W · #3 03-20-2009, 11:41 AM

Im a mother of a 3 year old and 2month old and mine looks exactly the same as it did as before i had kids. it will usually go back to how it was before ur 6weeks .u dont have anything to worry about if hers looks like that then it has always been like that its only streched for a short while its not going to stay like that because it got streched for a few minutes ..believe me !! ur ok u have nothin to worry about!

RiSiE H0TT STUFF[[LMA0]] · #4 03-20-2009, 02:26 PM

I've had a child and my labia doesn't hang. Maybe she has a vaginal disorder,some people vaginal areas aren't as "pretty" as others. so dint let one person labia discourage you from having children.

bette · #5 03-20-2009, 02:49 PM

Um, no, they cheat because they find that they married self-centered, "fluff-heads".

If hanging labia bothers you so much, there actually is plastic surgery for it.

Really, abortion??? How ridiculous. Kill a baby because you're afraid of getting droopy?

Megan N · #6 03-20-2009, 07:02 PM

Um..well..no.
There is a surgery to take care of her droopy labias. A lot of women have that problem and have never given birth to children.
If your friend had done her kegal's, her vagina would not be so stretched out.
Childbirth is the most natural thing a woman's body can undertake, and no, it is not destroying it.
If you have a severe phobia of childbirth, you could consider an elective c-section. Which is a little silly considering how much harder it is to get over than vaginal childbirth. But I really think that the more you think about having a sweet baby to hold and how normal and natural childbirth is, the less you will worry about flappy vagina lips and all that other junk.

TheRaven · #7 03-20-2009, 07:06 PM

If you listen to the Y!A serial Moms they'll have you believe that childbirth makes no difference to your vagina. Some even attempt to claim that they're tighter since childbirth.

They are lying. No-one wants to admit to having a vagina like a clown car (apart from your friend, obviously) but common sense will tell you that it's probably going to happen.

Mandy · #8 03-21-2009, 02:05 AM

If that really happens because of childbirth...I havent known any women that this has happend to...Usually someones lips hanging like that would be something she was born with...not something she had from having a child... if it bothers you and you want to have kids in the future just opt for a c-section...and as for men who cheat...they cheat because their assholes...and i really cant see how having one kid could make your friends vagina so big...maybe if she had 10 i could understand

aug 13! #1 · #9 03-21-2009, 02:11 AM

you sound like an idiot for saying something so vain..

alexanders and ? mama · #10 03-21-2009, 02:12 AM

Well she must be in the minority. Bc I had the birth from hell. He was face up and they needed to haul him out with a vacuum stuck to his head. He had a big head and big shoulders. I had to be cut and tore from stem to stern. And I don't feel any different downstairs. My husband once complained that I was too tight once! After I had given birth. I have never heard of labia stretching from giving birth. Sure things might be a bit looser for a bit but kegels will tighten things back up in no time. I really think that you need to realize that the vagina is very very elastic and it snaps back. Try not to worry about this. I have more issues with my hemorrhoids that never went away then with the state of my vagina.