I Don't want to speak with my grandma but I'm going to have to....? (It might be

[CupKake]

long but please answer)? don'twant to speak with my grandma but I'm going to have to....? (It might be long but please answer)?
my grandma is literally messed up! when my dad was a kid she left her husband and her 3 kids 4 a man. after she left she was with that man for probably a week. my dads hates her and can't forgive her for what she did. she has been the worst mother and grandmother. i love her but sometimes i wish i could just tell her stay out of my life!! last summer my grandpa(her ex-husband) was in the hospital and she had to stay with us while my parents went out of state to the hospital my grandpa was at. sorry if this is confusing... when we went to school, she wasn't even there when we woke up.. she wasn't even there!! she went to work at the bar!!! the bar is more important than her grandchildren(im 12 i have a 15 year old bro and a 17 year old sister) when my parents came come they had this bigggg argument with her and they were sayin how its already too late for the older kids, they already have their opinion of u but it may not be too late 4 me! then every time she came over, she would like bring me a present and not the other 2! she always gets me stuff that i dont like even when i tell her what i want. she thinks that if she brings me presents ill like her. she doesn't even bring anythin 4 my siblings! it makes me feel SO uncomfotable. the only reason shes doing that is cuz of wut my parents sayd about how its not 2 late 4 me and all... ya so then she would follow me around everywhere and just avoid my dad mainly...


ok so then on march 28th my birthday party.. every1 left except her and my dad was wrestling with my brother on the ground and i started cring(i wish i wouldn't have but im just sensative sometimes) and ran up 2 my room because i thouhgt my dad was hurting him...

my grandma yelled git off of him and my dads like oh ya i need advice from U

then my mom was settling me down in my room and my grandma came up yelling he needs help he needs help get some help joe!( my dads name)

my mom said stop critisizing people and my grandma said oh whose critisizing people now or sometinn like that...

so my grandma startin talkin and she said somewhere in her liil speak 2 my mom n me F***

so my moms like dont say that in front of shelby(me)

and grandma said oh like shes never herd it b4?

and my mom said not from a women! then she said i think u should leeve

and my grandma said i will and maybe i just wont come back!!!

what kind of grandma says that in front of her granddaughter?? ill never some back??

at the moment i dont want her to come back!!

at my sisters prom grand march thingy afterwards outside the school my grandma came up 2 me and hugs me n says all i messed up and i do luv u and all and i just wanna say BULL****

and she had called me a week b4 but i didnt answer

and she asked if i got her message(yes i did) and i said no

and she said u no u can call me i am ur grandmother

i just ignored that nd she walked away

she talks to my sister i guess a lot on the phone and my siter says everything she does is try to make peeple feel sorry 4 her and thats true now taht i think bout it

yes she did mess up and this time she cant fix it
that is what i wanna say 2 her

1 time at my sisters softball game she gave her our easter gift(clothes that ill never wear and dont fit) and she said to her"hears your easter gifts because your mom said i cant come back to your house

she hasnt called me again

my life has been perfectly finewithout her

but now my sisters gradutation party is in 3 days

shes coming and i dont want her to be at my house again

i sont no what to do becasue ill havt to face her again

tthis may be wrong but if she would just die then it would b alot more easier on me

i dont know what to do

please help me

i wish i could avoid her but i dont tink its possible

this is to every women that is a grandma out there

be the best grandma in the world to your grandkids
i dont want any other kid to go through what im going throgh


all of my friends r always saying how much their grandparents spoil them

i get so jealous sometimes

i have the best parents i the world literally

they tought me responsiblitiyl my frends say im spoiled but im ot iearn money and bu things mysleft and i respect adults i get all A's on my report card

im the type of girl parents want me 2 date thier son haha

i have a nice house my dad built in the country

my dads a construction worker and buys/fixes up/ sells housese
and rents them out

sometimes i wonder how some peeple cant afford 1 house and have 2 rent it while my dad owns right now probably 17

they r awesome parents

my moms parents died so my grandpa and grama r the only 1s i have left

my grandparents r devorced tho

[lilmomma]

i'm 12 too. I don't know how u feel cause i never been in that mess.Just try to make yourgrandma happy and try to get you fammily in some room and have them play games and chil with each other.